Just finished watching a Desperate Housewives episode .. the last line of the episode said
" ...in our darkest moment we all need someone to listen to us ...some seek to talk friendly professionals...some talk to someone wiser and elderly... some to someone who has gone to through similar.... but the most of us .. nothing is quite so therapeutic than a good long talk with a few old friends..." and the shot ended with all the gals talking over a table and enjoying each others company.
All one wants in life is to be with the right people at the right time... that is what is the life line for lifetime...
I just wish to have all my best buddies to live around my place ... in the same neighborhood... where we can meet up for a coffee in the middle of the week or on a Saturday morning for breakfast and just talk...talk about our lives..our achievements...problems... and most importantly about our feelings...
Feelings... it so much important for us to talk out what we feel... and to have someone to listen to us... Sometimes our life partner or our mother cannot be the person with whom we can share everything ... at that time we want someone who has gone through the same patch as are going through...someone who understands what it feels to be in such a situation... and instead of giving solutions to get out of the situation... just holds our hand and says...its okay...its alright to go through it... and slowly with care gets our mood back to normal and cheers us up... and at the end of the conversation we don't even remember what were we worried about ...
For me the perfect neighborhood would be Praj, Ketaki , Yamini, Leena, Prachi, Mugs,...
With these gals in my life i can be myself and and they can be their own self...
This idea of buying a flat in same society would be cool... i and Praj were planning it too.. i don't know how much is it practical...but to stay connected is so much important..
To tell honestly..even if we don't actually meet in person... our talks on phone after months also gets us together ... we start from where we had left...Yamini and me have experienced this sometimes...we don't talk for months...but one fine i get a call from her and we talk and talk ...as if we are sitting in our hostel rooms planning for a trip or solving sum issues in the star parivar ..!
With Praj...every time we talk ..its like we are talking while we taking a walk in the park near her place... and discussing about our life ..our plans..our dreams...
It just takes a few seconds to catch up... its just the exchange of few words and we know what situation the other person is in... or what is she going through ... its just perfect to be with them...my ideal vacation would also be with all these people.. hmm... ya if all of us get married soon then with we and our spouses.. ;) it would be fun to hang out with them... maja yeil...nahi tar a spinsters party and a Hangover kinda of trip would be just too good... i just keep my fingers crossed...
Well...With we, our families , our careers and our priorities ...we might not be able to stay in same locality...but still we are the perfect neighbors to each other.. any time of the day ...any day of the year...in any situation...any kinda help... we are there to listen and talk to each other... that's my idea of Perfect Neighborhood !!!
What is your idea gals... ?
:)
Cheers
Pradnya
I would love to be a part of the neighborhood.. by the way, I would be Lynette, not because I am going to have many kids (because I am not), just because I relate to her more than others..
ReplyDelete